HIBAPRESS – Ahmed Al-Musaed
In a time that glorifies boldness and encourages appearance, shy people find themselves facing a societal view that excludes them from the circle of influence, making them feel as if they are "out of the game." Although shyness is neither a disease nor a defect, its psychological and social impact remains strong, especially when met with silence or indifference.
The communication and media expert, Muhammad Wagdieri Al-Idrisi, believes that shyness is not an innate behavior, but rather the result of educational accumulations that begin in childhood, when the child is raised in an environment that criticizes a lot and diminishes the value of expression, which plants within him a feeling of not deserving to speak. This early silence accompanies him later in different stages of life: in school, at work, and in personal relationships.
But Wagdieri Al-Idrisi emphasizes that shyness is not a permanent condition, but it can be overcome through communication and practice. Every step towards expression, no matter how simple, is considered an exercise in courage, and every interaction with others enhances self-confidence. He adds that communication is not just an exchange of words, but rather a stance and a choice of presence and participation.
The expert highlights the importance of body language in building a strong image of the self, as a confident stance and a direct gaze send positive messages even if the person is still facing his fears internally. The body, as he says, "speaks before we speak," and contributes to conveying messages without the need for words.
As for the treatment of shyness, Wagdieri Al-Idrisi believes that the matter is not related to medications, but rather to will and determination. Believing in oneself is the first step towards liberation from hesitation, and admitting mistakes is part of the learning path. Whoever makes mistakes today, masters tomorrow, and whoever is silent today, may speak confidently in the future.
Wagdieri Al-Idrisi concludes by emphasizing that communication is not an innate talent, but an acquired skill, built gradually through experience and openness to others. Therefore, he advises against running away from people or situations, but rather facing them, expressing and smiling, because good intentions and simplicity are sufficient to overcome any hesitation.
